No sane person plans for a divorce when they get married. Divorce is an undesirable situation that
tears people and families apart. Often, divorced couples are left with resentments toward one another.
On the other hand, some divorced couples get along very well and remain good friends.
Oftentimes, people want to relive the happy times they once had with one another. Sometimes ex couples relive the good memories and succumb to a romantic interlude. Nothing good can come from hooking up with your ex spouse. You got divorced for a reason and you should move on and stop beating a dead horse,
so to speak.
Obviously, it's better if you and your ex spouse are not at each other's throats most of the time. If you can remain civil to one another, things will be vastly easier, especially if children are involved. But, if you are moving on with your life, having sex with your ex spouse is definitely not advisable. As you move on with your life, you want to learn from past mistakes, but not dwell on them.
Now that you are divorced, you are older and wiser and ought to make choices that do not jeopardize your
future. Diggin up your old romance with your ex spouse is not good for anyone. A divorce is emotionally and financially draining for everyone involved (except the lawyers). When you continue to have sex with your ex spouse, you make matters much more complicated than they need to be. And, you both will have to relive the reasons why you got divorced in the first place.
You should focus on moving on with your life and let the past die. You are divorced for a reason. Don't
relive the pain and aggravation with the same person twice. After divorce, there is so much in front of you and so much to look forward to. Of course, there is also sadness and regret over what happened. Don't second guess yourself or allow yourself to be consumed by overexaggerated memories of how great things were. Living in the past is no future. Life is worth living and now you are the wiser, I hope. So, avoid the temptation to sleep with your ex spouse. It only makes a difficult situation worse.
